"What if we made everything open? Let everyone come and feel it out..."
We asked ourselves this question at the very beginning.
But then we faced the truth: a truly warm, deep, and caring space doesn't emerge from "everyone." It requires tuning. Selection. Intention. And yes — sometimes, saying no.
🌿 Why this matters
justbeopen isn't a hobby club or a social hangout.
We're not trying to gather "as many people as possible."
We bring together those who value depth, maturity, softness, and real connection.
People who didn't come to be entertained, self-promote, or "test the dating market" — but to meet. Without masks. Honestly.
🤝 What selection gives us
1. Safety
When you enter a space where no one will judge you, interrupt, test your intelligence, or flirt inappropriately, you relax. You breathe.
And in that state, real encounters begin.
2. Quality of dialogue
Our members are incredibly diverse — in countries, ages, backgrounds.
But they share this: attention, maturity, and the ability to listen.
And we intentionally select for these qualities.
Because otherwise, conversation turns into a collection of remarks.
And we want it to become an experience.
3. Honest fit
Not all "mismatches" are bad people.
It's just that some feel more at home in a different rhythm, with a different energy, or a different level of engagement.
We don't judge.
We simply don't invite everyone.
Because we protect those who are already here.
🔍 How we do it
- The application form: not just a questionnaire, but a conversation. We don't look for "perfect writing," we look for essence, tone, intention.
- Questions about values and desires: not your job or hobbies, but what's inside.
- Team intuition: yes, it's real. We read between the lines. Sometimes we say "not yet." Sometimes — "let's have a quick call."
- Human contact at the door: almost always a short dialogue before inviting someone in. Because it's not just about the profile — it's about the feeling.
🧭 This is not about elitism
We're not "better."
We're simply different.
And we're creating a space for those who seek meaning, quiet, and genuine connection.
That could be a chef from Jakarta, an architect from Tbilisi, or a product manager from Berlin.
What matters is not what you do.
But how you live — and how you want to be with others.
🎯 In summary
We don't invite everyone — so that when you do come, you'll feel:
"Here, I can exhale. Here, I'm understood. Here, I'm among my people."
If that resonates — we're waiting for your application.
Because you might be exactly the person this was made for.
